Tanya, 57 - Cape Town

I like to think of myself as an easy going, warm person who leads a balanced life. A good friend to have. That's basically the feedback I get from my friends too. I enjoy jumping in the car and going to explore some part of our beautiful Cape Town. Weekends away. Holidays abroad. Its all about balance - work hard, play hard. Love parties with my friends, or a comfortable braai and a good glass of wine. I can look after someone very well, if i meet someone who treats me right also.

A guy (48 - 57)

I would not get along with someone is on the site as a Player. You should check in here only for a few months occasionally till you meet someone suitable and then disappear from the site. I'd like to meet someone who is a hard worker and equally can enjoy his free time to the full. All our interests may not match, but if we can spend half our free time together that would suit what Im picturing quite nicely. I dont tolerate nastiness, sarcasm, snobbishness. Id appreciate meeting someone with a stable personality - who lives and lets live. He would need to be equally nice and mad enough to fit in with my group of friends. We should correspond for a week or two and then meet, as that is really the only way we will both know wheter we should see each oher again, or not. So its about taking a chance, really...