seeking4you, 42 - Cape Town

I have a good sense of humor, fun to be around, and love great conversation there is no "ideal" relationship. Every relationship has ups and downs and the ability to grow and develop makes it close to ideal. Each person lets the other feel valued and appreciated, but not controlled, manipulated or consumed.. I'd like to meet someone who has common interests and will laugh at my humor. I’m fun and witty. I have a kind heart and I’m generous with my time and affection. I desire a partnership based on trust, communication, affection, honesty and compromise.
I’d like to find a woman who is interested in getting to know one another, share time with each other. Someone who would like to share each other’s lives.
I'm looking for just one woman, someone who is not interested in serial dating. A nice lady who's looking for a long term/monogamous relationship. Someone who is willing to leave on line dating and get me off this site.

There is so much more to let you know about me only of you care to know me than these few short things i have said on here. So, if any of this interests you please send me a note on my private email box comeletmak etrueloveu
.come plz try and understand the logical ways i put down my address box you can always chat with me on IM
In public, I'm the type of guy you can take home to mother because I've got the Eddie Haskell thing down pat. Moms love me. I do know how to behave, so you don't have to worry about me being the super loaded guy w/the lamp shad

A woman (18 - 35)

I am looking for someone who I can enjoy spending my free time with, share common interests, laugh, and have great conversation. Someone who can stimulate my mind on every level. Someone who is naturally thoughtful, caring, giving, respectful, kind,roman tic,...... I am looking to meet someone who knows what they want in life. I am looking for someone who can show me the world they come from and I want to do the same.,I am a very honest happy go lucky person, so if you are a control freak ,do not bother to drop a note. dont I know we all have past relationships but I would hope the person I am with has let theirs go. I hate drama and I do not like people who lie. I am interested in someone who knows who they are inside and out and who would share their experiences in life with me
........... loyal, committed, and honest and trustworthy. Someone who appreciates what they have in their partner and is willing to go the distance. A woman who can stick around through the good and bad and work through it all as a team. Someone who can understand we all have our flaws and make mistakes but the "whole" package is what is important. I want to know I can put a smile on your face and in your heart just by simply walking in the room. Of course attraction & chemistry is very important in any sustaining relationship but I also believe that we should put more emphasis on