Jay!, 40 - Vereeniging

I am a thinker.

I navigate the world by constant analysis, which can be frustrating at times.

I also think a lot about why I am here, why I exist and what's the purpose of it all. I tend to ask difficult questions without finding any answers.

The human part of me would like to connect with someone, but it seems people today are very fickle and superficial.

I get it, online dating is based on the superficial, but we are more than looks. You still need to get along with the other person and find common ground. A friendship (ideally) has to develop and it has to be done over time.

A lot of people hop in the sack quickly and then are surprised when kids arrive or it doesn't work out.

Look, I'm 40 years old. Single. Not rich, but I make a decent living. It's very difficult for me to look at women with baggage and be able to pursue them and their ego.

If you're humble, polite and personable, maybe don't think too much of yourself and are REALISTIC with your requirements, then maybe we can talk.

I know it's difficult for most women, but please consider your own baggage and what you bring to the table. Hopefully it's not only your looks or based in carnal activities.

A woman (25 - 45)

I'm easy going, just relax and be yourself. If you're a decent, chill person then we'll get along.