fisherman, 44 - Soweto

•Handsome
•integrity and character
•balan ced
•co urageous and takes initiative
•self- respect and gives respect to all
•committed and faithful
•honest
•good humor
•humble true and close friendships

A woman (22 - 33)

•Treat me with respect.
•Never puts me down.
•Doesn’t get angry if I spend time with my friends or family.
•Listens to my ideas and compromise sometimes.
•Not excessively negative.
•Shares some of my interests such as movies, sports, reading, dancing or music.
•Not afraid to share my thoughts and feelings.
•Is comfortable around my friends and family.
•Is proud of my accomplishments and successes.
•Respe cts my boundaries .
•Does n’t require me to "check in" or need to know where am I all the time.
•Is caring and honest.
? ??Doesn’ t pressure me to do things that I don’t want to do.
•Doesn’t constantly accuse me of cheating or being unfaithful .
•Enco urages me to do well in my music career or at work.
•Doesn’t threaten me or make me feel scared.
? ??Understa nds the importance of healthy relationships.