Maybe Serious, 67 - Roodepoort

I love to laugh and make people laugh!

I am a widower and want to meet the Special Someone to enjoy and share the rest of my life with. I admit that I am "choosy" when it comes to women but when I give my heart.. I am committed. NO chancers please .. I have had my fair share of scammers. my most recent two years were wasted on a Bipolar. I honestly believed that the time and money spent on doctors would have made a difference .. I have now given up.. she was not prepared to give up smoking Pot in exchange for her real well being!
I love to tease?? .. that is just ME.. but I am serious and sincere in business and relationships...38 years of marriage count as reference. My friends love my laughter and knowledge and my compassionate approach.

Ek geniet dit om "my Meisie" te bederf.. .. kom draai my om jou Pinkie MAAR, ek het 'n probleem met syfers... ek kan net tot by 47 têl... JA... ek mag nog kieskeurig wees. My vrou is vroeg oorlede. Ek is stil en staan in die "hoekie" in die middel van 'n vol geselskap terwyl ek "kaf-van-koring skei". Bullshit het nie plek meer in my lewe nie en lui/oorgewig ook nie.

A woman (35 - 47)

I DON'T KNOW!! Someone who will appreciate my Caring? Loving? My wanting to Give and Be? To not feel uncumfy if I act like a real "Mother Hen"? Someone spontaneous, who loves to laugh? .. who can share silent moments (when I think .. and she doesn't become worried.. thinking that I am grumpy??)
Overweight? ... please don't bother me... Petite? ... 1st Prize!! Bright and Witty? .. I cannot say NO...
I DON'T KNOW!! Someone who will be honest with me right from day one, about "baggage and hangups"
Someone who is passionate and loves to be loved .. who says thank you, from the heart and not just because of good manners. Someone who has the guts to express a dislike and not weeks later tells me only then. Someone who will immediately ask if she thinks that she has misunderstood me...
Yess.. a "Tall Order"... I do not expect every one to be on my "Menu" .. lol .. and then on top of it .. my age and weight criteria .. oh well, I know what I want and shows the appreciation in return for what I receive. Love is NOT a matter of give-and-take, or even worse "give-to-take" .. love is ... "never to have to say that you are sorry" .. Is this possible????