Phantom, 50 - Randburg

You won’t find me spamming inboxes with shallow messages or inappropriate pics, as cold-calling is not my style—I’m not here to meet everyone. I’m here to meet the one. I’ll leave it up to you to make the first move if you feel a connection.

I'm a rare INFP-A, with a deep well of creativity and empathy. As a designer and best-selling erotic graphic novelist, I pour passion into everything I do. I’m also an active lead guitarist working on my next album, a session musician, and a featured artist on Saatchi Art. My life is full of creativity, and I’m looking for someone who can add to it.

I’m not wealthy, but I’m stable, owning my own business and townhouse and steadily building my career from home as a website manager and developer. I’m looking for someone who’s equally independent and can manage her own finances.

I have had 2 dates so far from this site, one was brief and used fake pics., The other was a 4-month relationship who never told me where she stayed and excluded me from her life unwillingly. lol, no repeats, please.

A woman (30 - 55)

I’m seeking a true life partner—someone independent, grounded, present, fair, has grace, sense of humour, intellegent, accountable, playfull, love rock guitarists, artists, and willing to become part of my small world. I hope you’ll be interested in sharing in creative pursuits, and value mutual respect and support.

I am very open-minded but lean towards slim, colored hair, and tattoos, got a rock/goth thing going (even just on the inside) but I am always open, as long as your pics are current and honest. Dont ask me about any modern bands, I have no clue as l got stuck in the decades when music was good.

Honesty, fairness and integrity are crucial to me. If secrecy or double lives are your style, and if you can't introduce someone you date to your family or friends as your date, from day 1, please swipe on. Not negotiable! Not going to happen! Don't pick me! Move along, nothing to see... Thank you, lol