Celestine, 40 - Pretoria

I think the first word many of my friends would use to describe me would be "funny" or even crazy. I do have somewhat of a sarcastic (or sometimes demented) sense of humor. I believe in chivalry in it's truest sense. Courage, valor, fairness, protecting the innocent and weak, good over evil, and generally doing the right thing for the right reasons. I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination but I try to become a better person than I was the previous day. I try to learn from every experience and those around me. I check out the bar scene occasionally but would prefer to be spending the time at some event with that special someone i love.

A woman (50 - 90)

I really don't know what my perfect mate would be like. I mean, I've got some ideas but you never really know when chemistry will sneak up on you. I think she would definitely have to be stable, attractive, and confident enough to be able to laugh at herself. Someone I can have deep meaningful conversations with and confide in. Someone who appreciates our differences and can handle agree-ing to disagree if it comes to that. She would be independent but flexible and able to compromise. She knows how to trust me and supports me to the maximum extent possible just as I would do for her.