Okito, 42 - Pretoria

I'm basically a happy guy. I‘ve been blessed with mostly good fortune in my life and I’m grateful for it. Life is short, so I try to make a conscious effort to enjoy it. I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, you know?! Actually I was in a bus once and it got hit by a dump truck. I'll tell you about it one day. Anyway one can carry the "live for today" thing too far. I attempt to achieve a healthy balance with a lean towards fun. That sounds about right to me. Regarding a potential partner, having things in common is great. I like low culture and high culture, the ridiculous and the sublime, the mundane and the extraordinary. I hope you are open to all of it. In the end though I think the two most important qualities are a positive outlook and a kind nature. I don't think you have much without those two. We all have negative moments, I certainly do. I just try to keep it to a minimum. No two people have everything in common. We seem to share common interests, but will also have our differences. We should accept and respect those differences. We might even embrace those differences and see them as opportunities to experience new things. It is good to learn about new things. Variety is the spice of life and all that. I love taking deep breaths on a fresh winter morning.

A woman (24 - 30)

Its my wish to meet a woman who is trustworthy, honest and faithful. A woman who is ready to love me for who I am and not what I have or where I am. A woman who will be proud of me and ready to hold me 'high' above all other men. I would love to find a woman who is ready to give total attention to the relationship and make it top priority as well as getting committed to me and the relationship. Also, I look out for a partner who is who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life, emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone else . A good woman,very supportive in all ways and sees the positive side of things always also have the focus of being family oriented