GentleMe, 36 - Johannesburg

The things that have always been important to me is to try and be a good man, to live my life the way God would have me. I am a friend to all living things. I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. No matter what, I'm going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is i get to decide how I'm going to mess it up. I will have friends, they'll act like it anyway. Some will come, some go. The ones that stay with me through everything - they're my true best friends. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. Most of them are going to break my heart, but i can't give up because if i give up, I'll never find my soulmate. Just because I have failed once, doesn't mean I'm gonna fail at everything. I keep trying, always to believe in myself, because if i don't, then who will? So i keep my head high, keep my chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about. :)

A woman (18 - 40)

Every woman’s heart has different instructions. They are written through her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and in her tears. She just has to find someone who cares enough to read them. Men has it easy. It is hard to be a woman. They must think like a man, act like a lady, look like a young girl, and work like a horse.