SugarBoi, 38 - Johannesburg

I'm an ambitious guy who is ready to a meet a wonderful woman to share life and its many experiences. I've been called fun, sensitive, intelligent, caring, affectionate, and a lot worse. I'm quick witted and love to make people laugh. In reality, I'm a down to earth guy with a big heart looking for a best friend and soulmate, someone to share dinners, drinks, comedy, traveling, sports, concerts, maybe a bike ride, quiet times at home, whatever life has to offer. I'd like to try some new adventures that you enjoy as well.

A woman (18 - 90)

The person I end up with has to understand the meaning of partnership. We would celebrate the good times together, help each other grow as people. It would be wonderful to be in partnership with a woman who cares about being healthy and fit, both physically and mentally. Its important to me that we share a passion about life in a variety of activities. I'm looking for someone who appreciates me for who I am, and I will do the same for her. What all this comes down to is: There’s a difference between romance and intimacy. Romance is about personality and intimacy is about character. Romance is about the lure of surface chemistry, charm — your socialized self playing with somebody else’s socialized self. It’s superficial stuff and not necessarily long-lasting. Intimacy is about connecting soul-to-soul, character- to-charact er — sharing your real self with someone else’s real self — and that’s what’s necessary for a solid,long-lasting relationship