desmond, 37 - Johannesburg

HI, thanks for checking out my profile.....so how do i describe myself ...I am fun, Successful, confident, romantic, and live a fun, abundant but pretty simple lifestyle I suppose,.....I live in a beautiful complex, explore on my Harley, dine out, love cultural and social events, concerts, sports....I am experienced, adventerous, passionate, honest, successful, funny, confident, strong, moral, witty, engaging, loyal, driven and happy.....(geez, almost sounds like I should put a big red S on my chest and wear a red cape...lol) I love to put my lady on a pedestal and spoil her, she would never do without. Friends have told me that I am interesting, have a life story that I should write a book about, sensitive, "have a big heart", am solid as far as my character/morals and am "wholesome". Some of these characteristics can make me vulnerable but I would rather have these characteristics, taking the risks of being hurt or disappointed, although, I am analytical and perceptive enough to see truth. I prefer to be with people who will say what they mean and do what they say, who don't play games and are able to speak their minds even at the risk of the truth being told. Truthfulness, I believe, is the foundation of a strong relationship and an essential ingredient in interpersonal communications.

A woman (25 - 35)

Someone who is open, honest, faithful and commited, a one man woman who's pretty, sexy, witty, funny, nonjudgmental, happy, allergic to drama.....someone to cherish and grow together, and have lots of laughs and memories on the way. I have younger kids I share custody of, who are a blast and the light of my life,so enjoying kids is a must. However, a relationship is its own priority, and sets an example of what happy people have in a relationship.