Ruan, 39 - Germiston

I am single father of two young children, boy and girl.
Have now been divorced since 2015. My children are my life. I do work 6 days a week. I do enjoy the out doors and physical activities, but am just as content with sitting quietly and enjoying each other.
I am generally quite placid, although there are times and instances where I will feel strongly enough about something and be stubborn about it. I am a great listener, and a problem solver, although I can also be withdrawn at times.
I do enjoy giving a well deserved back, neck or foot massage, or any other massage that might help. And would always appreciate one if needed.

A woman (18 - 40)

There is no perfect person, but i would like to meet a lady who enjoys being held.
Looks are negotiable, I am no Brad Pitt either.
I would just like to find a loyal person who does not play games with the heart, and who is straight forward.
Social drinking is acceptable, but not somebody that needs to be dragged out of the bar at 2 am.
If she smokes, I can live with that.
A lady who can look after herself financially.
Must understand children, and accept that my children do come before you.
I will take a night around a campfire any time over a night on the town.
I would like to start off as a friendship (friends with benefits also a consideration), and see where it takes us. If it is successful and leads us to the altar, that would please me tremendously.