Tshepa, 46 - Ga-Rankuwa

I'm honest, loyal, trustworthy, peaceful & an open book, someone who's easily to get along with, great sense of humour.

I still believe in love & hope to find my other half, whom we'll be sharing the common vision & mission to accomplished.

A woman (27 - 49)

Perfection is just an illusion. Nobody in the world is perfect but someone can be perfect for us. A life partner is the one with whom one envisions a lifetime of togetherness full of highs and lows. This is one of the most important decisions of life which must be taken judiciously.

Find someone who is as much attracted to you(if not more) as you are to them. The easiest way to observe this is by seeing their level of investment(time and energy) in you. No matter how amazing you feel in their company or how amazing chemistry you have, if the other person is not willing to invest in you, then it's your onus to walk away from them.
Fall in love with the efforts and not with the potential. Well, if you think that you can change someone, believe me you can't. Either love the person as they are or simply walk away. Expecting someone to be better than what they are, is merely a waste of your time and energy.
Find someone who envisions you in their future. Observe whether their future plans involve you, how often do they talk about your(both) future or do they simply avoid talking about it.
Find someone who uses ‘WE' way more than ‘I'.
Find someone who doesn't try to control you(neither actively nor passively). Learn to differentiate between care and control.
Look for someone who sits down and discusses about the problems and misunderstandings in your relationship and not the one who just ignores you like a child.
Find someone who supports your dreams and goals and prioritizes