James, 39 - Centurion

What can I say about me? I don't believe in rules for the sake of rules or doing things a certain way just because that's how it's been done by others. I have a curious mind and love intellectual conversation. I don't get to travel much these days but when I do, I love it. I also do tend to spend my free time reading: I'm a bit of a book worm. So there are a few things about me. Let's not ruin the fun of discovery by telling it all :)

A woman (22 - 45)

I would say the most important thing is to meet someone who is good and kind. Intelligence is a big advantage. On the whole, though, I find that one can make this long list of desired traits only to have it go out the window when you meet someone who appeals to you. Chemistry is a curious thing. One thing I should make mention of is that it is 100% essential is that a potential match be sober, at least on a general day-to-day basis.