paulata, 44 - Centurion
Gauteng, South Africa
About Me:
This is pretty difficult, but I will give it my best shot, promise. I'll start by saying, I'm a very simple person. I love the simple things in life, those things that just bring smiles to peoples' faces. I like to laugh a lot but I also know that I'm fully capable of being serious when the time for that comes. Like every other person, I have had my shares of ups and downs in life and I have learned from them. I thank God for the good in my life and the bad, I just take it in stride and carry on life with renewed hope and faith.
People generally tell me that I have a good heart, but at the same time people also try to take advantage of that as a weakness in me. I believe everyone has good in their heart and I always give people the benefit of a doubt, no matter the situation. I believe in God deeply, that he is in control of my life and I let him be.
I love to dance, I love music (almost all kinds), I enjoy spending time with the special someone in my life and sharing every moment with them. I love movies, and i try to keep my mind and body in good shape.
Looking For:
totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a woman to be
a servant to me, spending all her time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship,
and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I
consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't
expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me games. ...we'll see how things go after we get to know each
other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical,
harsh, or mean sounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I
also don't like being taken advantage of.I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning and
till death do us part; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.