CJ, 49 - Brakpan

I'm spontaneous. I usually go against the grain, mainly because i get bored easily, but usually out of curiosity. Patience comes naturally to me, and understanding problems and conflicts is a necessity. I'm a morning person, and I hate going to bed angry, or with unresolved issues, (coz that just kills my morning chi). I am very open minded, and always up for new experiences. If it does nothing for me, I'm done with it, but each to his own. Striking a balance between socializing, and chilling at home, weighs a bit more to the later, but when I'm out, I make the most of it, and enjoy good, fun company. I mostly do things at the last minute, but get it done, and I am a man, so don't expect multitasking. I love to love, and hate to hate, hence I get over things quickly.

A woman (30 - 40)

I would like to meet someone who respects herself, and the people she's around, is comfortable with herself, enjoys life, and rolls with the curve balls. Honesty, affection, and laughter is very important. Her past does not matter to me, as this is what shaped the person I meet. (There is always some room for baggage, but please don't overload). Trust is a tough one, but i need to trust, and be trusted, otherwise life becomes complicated, and complicated becomes the issue. Although I can appreciate most genre's of music, a good Metallica or Nirvana track makes me smile, and I like the people around me to smile with.