TenderSoul, 44 - Port Elizabeth

First and foremost (not to waste each other's time), I'm in an open marriage and as per our beliefs, I may have as many wives/mistresses as I choose. My core belief is Life above all else and free will. I have excellent personal hygiene, I'm respectful, playful, discreet, drug and disease free :). I can be untidy at times, I am in no way a clean freak, (unless at the office, lol), however, I love my home to be parasite free. A social gathering does not have to include alcohol, but there must be a braai involved. Oh, there is NO LIFE before coffee!!! Friends describe me as a Grizzly Bear with the heart of a Teddy Bear. I do have a medical condition, which is Scheuermann's with Kyphosis, basically Spinal issues with a forward bend and Spondylosis which is a weird gait. I am mobile, that is to say I'm not on crutches or in a wheelchair.

A woman (21 - 45)

The person I'd like to meet should firstly have no issues with polygamy and/or being a "mistress" at first, if the relationship progresses to the point of marriage it begins a process. She should also have excellent hygiene, and be respectful, playful, discreet, drug and disease free (I am not referring to health issues such as e.g. diabetes, etc).